Spotting Swingers: The Hidden Symbolism Behind Black Rings and Pineapples
- Mr & Mrs DV8
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Spotting Swingers
The hidden symbolism behind the popular Swingers motifs. Want to know some common ways for spotting swingers in the crowd? Find out the significance and how the Black Ring and the Upside-Down pineapple have become the two most popular modern trends for identifying others in the Swingers and ENM Lifestyles.
The significance of wearing a black Ring on your right hand?
The Deviate Network was on the forefront of the Black Ring movement back in 2013. When we hosted the very first black ring party with the support of the popular Swingers website Kasidie.com
Wearing the Black Ring on your right hand signifies that you are in the “Swing” or Alternative Lifestyle, a trend most recently referred to as The ENM (Ethical Non-Monogamy) Lifestyle .
This makes it easier for other lifestylers to spot other Swingers in the crowd, especially at public Meet and Mingles. It is also a great way to spot a date you're meeting for the first time.
There is no specific finger to wear it on, though it is most popular to wear it on the ring finger or the pinky Wearing the black ring on the middle finger signifies being asexual, not open to being approached by the opposite sex.
Typically worn when out as a couple or with other swingers; so it’s not a coincidence that we are all wearing black rings on the same hand.
As you can see from the photo below, taken at one of our events, it’s a matter of preference.
Image source: Deviate Network Black Ring Party March 8th 2013
A black ring worn on the right hand is used as a discreet signal to identify fellow swingers. It is often referred to as a "lifestyle" ring designed to allow members to recognize each other in public, "vanilla" settings.
The Black Ring offers a subtle and discreet way to signal experienced swingers. The Black Ring has gained popularity through companies like Partners ID that offer various Jewelry for the ENM Lifestyle.
The Upside-down Pineapple Craze
The Upside-down Pineapple Craze The upside-down pineapple has become a symbol of a unique and vibrant subculture, particularly within certain social circles. This movement has evolved into a more intricate and multifaceted trend that encompasses various aspects of lifestyle, relationships, and even home decor.
The upside-down pineapple is often associated with a playful and sometimes cheeky representation of hospitality and openness to new experiences, particularly in the context of swinging and alternative lifestyles. The origins of this symbolism can be traced back to the pineapple itself, which has long been recognized as a symbol of welcome and friendship.
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The 70’s pineapple in the shopping cart tradition
Subculture Symbolism: Emerging from a period of "Tiki Culture" and shifting sexual attitudes in the 60s/70s, an upside-down pineapple placed in a shopping cart (or, more commonly, on a porch or in a cruise ship cabins) was a discreet way for individuals to indicate they were open to "swinging" (sexually swapping partners).
The upside-down pineapple has gained traction as a playful way to signal one's openness to non-traditional relationships. serves as a discreet code in the swinging community allowing individuals to communicate their openness to alternative lifestyles in a discreet yet recognizable manner
The mainstream Social Media Rise of the Upside-down Pineapple
In the late 2000’s Social media has run wild pineapple craze
Sparking Social groups and entire companies and products centered around this phenomenon from home decor to clothing. Swingers have incorporated this motif
“In 2023 we incorporated our Cruzin' Pineapples product line to our own DV8 Dare line of Lifestyle Products and Games. With our wildly popular Tease & Please Erotic Card Game and Pineapple Dare Pong. We wanted something Pineapple Themed colorful, playful and interactive way to identify as Swingers. When we think of pineapples we think playful and fun!“
In conclusion, the upside-down pineapple craze is more than just a fleeting trend; it represents a shift in societal norms and an embrace of alternative lifestyles. From its historical roots as a symbol of hospitality to its modern interpretations in social media and home decor, the upside-down pineapple encapsulates a spirit of openness and community. As this movement continues to evolve, it will likely inspire further conversations and connections among those who resonate with its playful yet meaningful connotations.
Author: Mr & Mrs DV8
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