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Deviate Network Events

Lifestyle Events, Membership and Education

Enjoy the lifestyle to it's fullest
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UPCOMING EVENTS

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EXXOTICA 2024 EVENTS SCHEDULE

  EDISON, NEW JERSEY 

New Jersey Convention & Exposition Center

 OCTOBER 25-27, 2024

 WASHINGTON, D.C.

Dulles Expo Center

DECEMBER 6-8 2024

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ABOUT OUR EVENTS

Since 2009 The Deviate Network has provided fun and exciting. Exclusive Members only Adult Lifestyle Events in the Beautiful New York Hudson Valley as well as lifestyle education for new couples seeking to explore the alternative lifestyles. 

Our VIP Style Events are exclusive, fun, secure, private environment to meet sexy like-minded couples and single ladies in your area. 

We feature upscale intimate lifestyle events with members who are real & verified. Our attention to detail at every event shows. We believe in quality not quantity. 

We attract sexy, fun and attractive couples and single ladies, who are looking to make connections in the lifestyle. 

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EXCLUSIVE MEMBERS ONLY

Deviate Network host the hottest exclusive members only events in the New York Hudson Valley Region

Our quality members only event hosts a guest list of sexy couples and single ladies,  all real and vetted.

We boast some of the most unique venues on the East coast. 

ATTENTION TO DETAIL

Our attention to detail at every event shows. We believe in quality not quantity. 

We attract sexy, fun and attractive couples and single ladies, who are looking to make connections in the lifestyle. Checkout our events calendar for a list of upcoming events.

All of our events are members only, event locations are private for maximum privacy and discretion. 

Enjoy the lifestyle to it's fullest

LIFESTYLE EDUCATION 

Lifestyle Education is one of the most integral aspects to make your swing experience a positive one.  When you think about swinging, most individuals flashback to the stories from the 1970's and key parties; Drop your keys in a bowl, pick out another set, and that's the person you sleep with.  Well, not exactly.  There are many variables that come in to play long before that.  Whether you're just curious, or you're ready to introduce the idea to your partner, The Deviate Network wants to make sure that your introduction to swinging has the best possible outcome. 

We offer New couple orientations, Educator Q&A panels. 

Ask DV8; where readers can ask questions anonymously and receive a response from his and her perspective and our experts.  Our vast network includes liaisons within the poly, nudist, and BDSM communities, so no question is off limits.

APPLY FOR MEMBERSHIP

The Deviate Network is a members only club. We hosts both free and paid member events

All prospective members are vetted for the privacy and security of our members and venues

Rest assured we never publicly post the location of our private events.

 

Our VIP Style Events are exclusive, fun, secure, private environment to meet sexy like-minded couples and single ladies in your area. 

 

PROSPECTIVE MEMBER APPLICATION PROCESS

Deviate Network host the hottest exclusive members only events in the New York Hudson Valley Region

Our quality members only event hosts a guest list of sexy couples and single ladies,  all real and vetted.

YOU MUST HAVE A PROFILE ON ONE OF OUR AFFILIATE SITES

You will be prompted to provide a profile screen name on one of our preferred lifestyle sites in order to complete your application.  If you are not currently a member of a lifestyle site.

Your profile must contain adequate content about yourselves, if you have no profile you may write us to tell us why you may be a good fit for our group. 

The links to our affiliate sites are on the right of this page. 

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FULL FACE & BODY PICS REQUIRED 

Our vetting process requires: Clear, Non nude full face and body pics of the two of you together unless applying as a single. 

Failure to provide the required photos will result in your application being ignored. 

Do not submit filtered, in costumes or otherwise not a normal everyday picture of yourselves.

Photos must be submitted via email we will not accept open pics on profiles as a submission. 

WHAT WE LOOK FOR

Put your best foot forward, we're not looking for super models, be yourself we want to see you at your best. Please submit a quality photo(s) of yourselves at your best. Our events cater to an upscale clientele we appreciate members that care about appearance. 

You must be a single female or couple between 21-55yo to attend these events. Single male applications will not be considered.

Events are invitation only, application process may take up to 30 days to properly vet an applicant.  

If you are being vetted or fast tracked for a specific event, and are a no show, you will be banned. 

Following instructions is your first application hurdle. 

Use the catch phrase "We Deviate" when you apply so we can be assured you took the time to read this. 

Agreement:

By applying for membership you acknowledge you (both) wish to become members voluntary and at your own risk. You are required to be a consensual, committed couple or consensual single female attending this event at your own free will. You understand and agree that neither Deviate Network, nor its owners, directors, staff, affiliates and parent companies collectively or the venue at which the events take place, and you hereby expressly release all parties involved from any and all claims arising from, or in any way connected to, the foregoing. This agreement merges and supersedes all prior and contemporaneous agreements and/or representations between the parties relating to the listed events. You understand that your donation for party/event admission, is to cover cost of the venue, music, entertainment, in some cases food and other expenses related to the event only. Any subsequent activities either before, after or during the event are of your own consent and not included in the cost of admission or the liability of its owners, directors, staff, affiliates and parent companies collectively or the venue. You also agree that by attending the above mentioned event that you agree to the rules and regulations listed above and of the venue and above mentioned affiliates. This agreement shall be construed, governed, interpreted and applied in accordance with all Federal and State laws of the United States and the State of New York, and the parties consent to the sole and exclusive jurisdiction of the state and federal courts of New York for any and all issues arising out of, or related to, the terms of this agreement or your attendance at the listed events.

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